Monday, May 25, 2009

New beta result

Just heard from the nurse. "Well, your beta didn't exactly double," she began, "but the doctor wants you to stay on the progesterone and come back on Wednesday."

I think she might have left it at that, but my mind was reeling. Didn't exactly double???? What does that mean??!!

"Can you tell me the number?"

So she did.

It's 13dp3dt and the number, deep sigh, is 36. Talk about not doubling. I'd call it dropping.

Not sure why I'm staying on the progesterone. I'd guess it's in case of a miracle.

I've been having a lot of pain in my lower left side. It has crossed my mind that this might be/have been an ectopic.

Don't know what to say. At the moment, I feel....nothing. Just a little dead inside.

Mo

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73 comments:

MissMVK said...

Mo, I am sorry. I wish I could say something more profound that sums up how terrible I feel for you. Sending love.

Dora said...

Oh, fuck! I don't know what to say.

MabelB said...

Oh no. I'm so sorry. There are no words.

nepsi said...

I am so sorry.

mekate said...

Fuck just about says it.
But not quite.
Darn gods were NOT listening to me at all, were they? I am so so sorry. What the hell. Proving once again that this has nothing to do with fairness or what is right. Oh Mo, I am so sorry. I hate this more than I can say. Sending warm wishes to you, and, once again,wishing I were magical. If I were, things Would be different.
Warmly, Kate

Gil said...

Aw crap. This sucks honey. I am not giving up all hope entirely for you. I'm just hoping that things turn around. And FAST. Sending you both lots of hugs.

meinsideout said...

I hate this for you and I am so sick of this for you. I am so sorry. I will be thinking of you and Will.

What IF? said...

So utterly devastating. I've been holding my breath with you these past few weeks and this latest news is just soul destroying.

I'm thinking of you. Lots. And holding you in my heart.

Sara said...

There are no words other than the sinking in my heart and the knot in my stomach at this news. Take care of yourself and Will, too.

Good Egg Hunting said...

I am so very sorry to hear this news -- I really hoped this was it for you. Take good care of yourself. We are all thinking of you.

Heather said...

Making the blog rounds today... just wanted to let you know I stopped by.
*hugs*
heather
http://tighteningthecorsetagain.blogspot.com/

White Picket Fences said...

That sucks. No good words other than that. I'm so sorry for both of you. Will keep everyone in our thoughts ...

Duck said...

I wish there were better words that can express it (other then the string of curses that can be heard at my desk). Sending you lots of hugs today, hang in there.

Sprogblogger said...

Oh goddamnit. I am so very very sorry. Sitting here with tears in my eyes. I wanted this to be different. I wanted this for you so badly. You're in my thoughts, both of you. Take care.

'Murgdan' said...

Ohhhh Dammit dammit dammit.

I'm so so sorry. I so wanted this to be it for you, which is a dumb thing to say, because I know you wanted that too.

This all sucks. You're in my thoughts.

poppy.f.seed said...

I am so sorry. many hugs to you both.

Xbox4NappyRash said...

Oh no.

I'm so sorry if this doesn't work out.

DAVs said...

F*%^! I am so sorry. This is not fair or right.
*shakes fist in air*
DAMN INFERTILITY. It just sucks.

I'm really sorry.

Niki said...

Mo, WTF kind of thing is it to say "didn't exactly double"? Uggh! I'm so terribly sorry. My RE always had me stay on PIO too even when my beta dropped, but it always made me upset. Thinking of you and Will and sending strength!

Anonymous said...

I am sorry!

Megan said...

I'm so sorry. I just don't understand the world anymore.

bunny said...

So sorry.
So cruel.
So unfair.
So disappointing.

Thinking of you and wishing for a surprising twist of fate.

Liz said...

My heart hurts for you. I am sorry to hear this news Mo.

loribeth said...

:( I'm sorry.

Barefoot said...

Oh, no no no. I'm so sorry to hear this. I've got no words except to say that I'm thinking of you.

Echloe said...

I'm so sorry Mo. Sometimes I wonder when things are going to easier. I mean, why does the universe let you feel excited about a bfp for just a little bit then pull the rug out from under you? I hate that you have to suffer this crap. Hugs and more hugs.

birdsandsquirrels said...

Oh no no no. I am so sorry, Mo and Will. This just isn't fair. This absolutely sucks. I don't even know what to say. Why is the universe so fucking cruel?

Geohde said...

Oh, Mo....

SO sorry for the both of you...

g

Brenna said...

I'm so very sorry.

Emily said...

Oh Mo...I am so very sorry to hear this. You & Will are certainly in my thoughts.

Peaches said...

I wish I had something to say other than I am so sorry--seems so inadequate and is...
sending lots of cyber hugs your way...

Phoebe said...

I'm so sorry sweetie! I'm holding you and Will in my warm, loving thoughts.

Andrea said...

No! Mo, I am so very sorry. This is just so unfair. A million ((HUGS)) to you and Will.

chicklet said...

Gawd, I really thought this one might be meant to be. This f*g sucks.

A said...

Mo, I dont know what to say. Im so sorry. I am thinking of you and praying that things start to look up!

wereyoulookingforme said...

I'm so sorry - I was so hoping this would be the cycle for you guys. Sending you both hugs and love.

The Blatchford Family said...

I am so so sorry. I don't even know you IRL, but I wish that I could give you a hug. Your post on my blog about my loss meant a lot to me. I hope that our words of comfort can help ease the pain just a little bit. Big hugs honey!!

Alexicographer said...

Oh, geez. I'm so sorry.

Me said...

Oh man this was not what I wanted to read. I don't know what to say except "I'm sorry". ((HUGS))

luna said...

oh crap, mo, I'm so sorry.

Gabby said...

this totally sucks.. i am so so sorry. i was so excited for you guys, and now this crap.

elliej said...

Mo, I am hoping there is still a chance for this pregnancy. Hang in there till Wednesday xxx

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry Mo and Will - I will keeping all fingers and toes crossed that a positive outcome is imminent but also sending healing vibes if it isn't.

Too unfair for words...

Jen

m said...

dear mo and will, sending you love.

Mimi said...

Sending you my love. I am so very sorry.

Kami

My Endo Journey said...

I'm so so so sorry!

WiseGuy said...

So Sorry...I don't comment much, but I do come around to your blog...I am awfully sad that this is happening.

Hugs.

JJ said...

Mo, I just got caught up with your last few posts. I'm so sorry to read this latest result. Big hugs to you.

nutmeg96 said...

Oh no. I'm so very sorry. It's so unfair.

dryan said...

My heart sank when I read this post. I am so, so sorry.

Lollipop Goldstein said...

I am so incredibly sorry. That is horrible news.

Bluebird said...

I'm so sorry.

annacyclopedia said...

I'm so sorry, Mo. I'll be keeping you and Will in my thoughts and prayers.

glamcookie said...

I am just so angry at the universe for this. Thinking of you both.

Michele said...

so very sorry...

mekate said...

me again, just sending love.

nancy said...

I am so very sorry.

Sprogblogger said...

Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you.

Leigh said...

No, no, no, no, no!

I can't believe it - I was SOOO sure this was the one

Sending you big hugs........

Sarah said...

Damn. I'm hoping for your miricle. A friend does have a four year old from a beta that dropped, so it ca. Happen, but I think if it were me I'd just shut down too.

Hope said...

I am so sorry...

jodie38 said...

Huge, huge hugs to you and Will, Mo. To say this sucks incredible amounts of a$$ is an understatement. Take care of each other.....

Hang in there....wishing you both some peace.

And I don't know why that just took me 5 tries to type "peace" instead of "pez". Well, I dunno. Pez may help more than some things...

Thinking of you both.

S said...

shit...I'm sorry. there's nothing even remotely adequate I can say, no comfort to offer, not even cold. I "hope" you get that miracle. but if you're anything like me...they're few and very very far between.

sending you some hang in there hugs.

Melanie said...

"I'm sorry" is once again painfully inadequate. But I am sorry and so profoundly saddened by this news. I'm sending you peace and hope.

sasa said...

I am so sorry...

Elizabeth said...

I am so sorry. Nothing I can think of to say begins to say how much it sucks.

meinsideout said...

thinking of you tonight.

musicmakermomma said...

So sorry Mo. This just sucks. I hate this for you.

At least (the very least) your dissertation is in and you don't have to be dealing with that too. Sending hugs your way.

Aunt Becky said...

I'm so, so sorry. I'm so, so sorry.

invitroveritas said...

Oh crap. I am so sorry. Fuckity fuck. I wish you'd had different news. Thinking about you both.

squarepeg said...

Oh no - this is just awful and so not fair. I'm very, very sorry :(

Sassy said...

I'm so sorry. *hug*

Maria (MKC101103) said...

I'm here from Lisa's blog (meinsideout). Just wanted to let you know one more person out in the blogosphere sends you hugs and is rooting for that miracle.

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